Monday, October 12, 2009

The World and the World Wide Web

After watching the video last class, I was shocked at most of the stories we saw. I was horrified by the website that glorified anorexia and flabbergasted by the girl who created a pornographic alter-ego on MySpace to overcome her poor self-esteem and confidence issues. Although I had been introduced to the idea of identity shaping technology before, I didn’t have a good grasp on this concept until watching the video. It made me think about the ways in which one’s cultural identity shapes the way one uses technology.

In the article about the cultural differences in instant messaging, the authors discuss different ways that people of different cultures communicate online. They described how some cultures will talk to only one person while others may have several windows running concurrently. They compare different cultures’ uses of emoticons. The article discusses which types of cultures are more likely to use audio-video interaction. This reading is more focused on “what” different people do, but I am more interested in the “why” and the “how”.

In my experiences communicating with students from China and Korea, I have found several fundamental differences in the ways Eastern and Western cultures communicate via technology. Of course, my observations are biased since I am using my own personal experiences as well as those of my similarly aged peers, but I will attempt to be as balanced as possible in my analysis.

One recurring theme I have noticed is the differences in why we communicate in the first place. In the U.S., it is very normal to open your chat window when bored, lazy, procrastinating, or when there is nothing better to do. In Asia, this type of behavior is strongly discouraged; instead, they appear to only use online communication when absolutely necessary. How often do we hear American students say something along the lines of, “I got so distracted doing my homework because I kept talking to my friends”? In Asian countries, where academics are a much higher priority than social life, this attitude is unheard of.

American students are much more lighthearted in their online communication and deliberately use their messages to display aspects of their personality. Have you ever seen a Facebook photo with dozens of bickering comments underneath it? Most of the time, there is not an actual conflict going on underneath the photo, but it is a reflection of the goofiness and playfulness our culture loves to use on the Internet. In Asian cultures, there is none of this. You say want you want to say, straight to the point, no dancing around. Asian people definitely have a sense of humor, but they don’t necessarily like to convey that when they speak to each other online.

I’ve noticed lots of Asian students have started using “lol” and similar text-speak phrases. I think that they are trying to emulate the American way of “chatting”, which I don’t think is a good thing. There is no correct way to communicate. It is crucial for a country to maintain its own culture and unique qualities. In some ways, I believe we should all start communicating like Asians. We might actually get some homework done.

2 comments:

  1. I agree that if anything Americans should try and pick up on the Asians "straight to the point" way of communication, but they shouldn't be the only ones. In Morocco, we give alot of priority to friends and family (again, as you mentioned earlier this is my own bias because I'm referring to my personal experiences). At home, the first thing I do is go on MSN, and I'll most likely stay connected until I shut down my computer. Just being "online" induces people to talk to you, seek for your advice, or blatantly for you to procrastinate.
    Yet, one thing I noticed that is different between American/Moroccan "chat" per say is the use of emoticons. When I chat with my Moroccan friends there are alot more smiley's or confused looks, yet with my friends who are American is toned down. Come to think of it, Facebook doesn't even have an emoticon for rolling eyes, which I normally use when I think my friends full of it.
    If everybody could get straight to the point in Morocco it would actually sound rude. The least you do is say hi and how are you. Even though as you said it would save time for homework to be done, realistically speaking, I don't think I could ever come down to it.

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  2. I remember when my mom sat me down and made me watch this because the school I was at was concerned about their students on MySpace and wanted to alert the parents. Though I had a profile at the time because I wanted to be like my friends who all had one, I told my mom that I didn't have one. The same thing happened again when Facebook became popular in high school. But in the end, my mom now has one.
    In my opinion, it is a double-edged sword. While it is great to keep in touch with friends from all over, it prevents our generation from properly developing social skills because we are so used to communicating online. It might even hinder us in the future. But for the time being, it is a great distraction that has ultimately become part of our culture.

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